"I Blacked Out at My Old Gym—Then I Found LIFT": Don's Story
Don Tinker walked into LIFT Performance Gym in January 2025 carrying more doubt than gym bags. Years earlier, a workout with a different personal trainer had ended with him blacked out mid-circuit, an experience embarrassing enough that he never went back, and fearful enough that it kept him away from gyms altogether. Eight months after starting at LIFT, Don describes something he never expected to find: trust, structure, and people who actually listen.
If you've ever been burned by a bad experience at a gym or with a trainer, Don's story is worth hearing directly because it shows what changes when the people coaching you actually listen to what you've been through.
A Chance Meeting That Led to Real Change
Don's path to LIFT started at a holiday party. A former colleague invited LIFT co-founders to the event, and Don met Tyler Clark for the first time. "I just gravitated towards him immediately. Great personality, and I felt like I could trust him," Don recalls. That trust mattered because he ended up sharing something most people wouldn't bring up at a party: a history of failed attempts at fitness, including a frightening incident with a previous trainer.
"I shared some stories with him about failures working out with a previous trainer, struggles with diet... and what are we, eight or nine months later, and the rest is history." That conversation in December became the starting point for a completely different experience at LIFT the following January.
Why He'd Stayed Away From Gyms
Don had tried plenty on his own before finding LIFT like different diets, intermittent fasting, a rotating list of approaches that never stuck. "Until you learn properly, the results aren't going to be there," he says. The deeper issue wasn't effort. It was trust, built on one specific, difficult experience.
"I signed up with a personal trainer. The very first time I worked out with him, in the middle of a circuit, I collapsed, blacked out, fainted, and it was embarrassing. I felt so embarrassed. I had paid for 10 classes. I did one. I never went back to that gym after that." That single session didn't just end a training plan, it kept Don away from gyms entirely, because he'd trusted a professional with his safety and felt that trust hadn't been earned. "I thought I was putting my life in the hands of a professional. They actually weren't."
Being Honest and Being Heard
What changed at LIFT wasn't just the workouts rather it was that Don's history was actually taken seriously. He shared what had happened with Tyler early on, and it directly shaped how his coaches approached his training. "During these classes he was monitoring me, and they were saying, 'you can't do this yet. I know you want to, but you can't. We will build you up.'"
That kind of pacing coaches actively holding a member back from doing too much, too soon, because they're paying attention. This is a direct result of LIFT's model, where every coach is a founder invested in getting it right for each person, not just moving members through a program. Don put it simply: "If I had not been honest with Tyler and Brian and Connor and shared that with him, they would have found a way to pull it out of me anyway because they genuinely care about each person that walks through their door."
A Relationship, Not Just a Membership
Eight months in, Don describes his relationship with the LIFT coaches as something well beyond a typical gym membership. "I've got a great relationship with all of them, but they care as much about every single new person that walks through. And they genuinely want to help everybody, even those that aren't here." That level of attention for members who've been there for years and people who haven't walked in yet is central to how LIFT operates.
Don's experience reflects a theme other members describe as well. You can read about how LIFT builds a personalized plan from day one in how LIFT Performance's custom training program works, or hear from another member who found the same kind of consistency and support in Kate's LIFT Performance story.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I've had a bad experience with a personal trainer before?
LIFT Performance is built around listening to that history and adjusting accordingly. Don shared a past incident where he blacked out during a workout with a previous trainer, and his LIFT coaches used that information to pace his training carefully rather than push him too fast.
Will coaches actually know my history and limitations?
Yes. Members are encouraged to be upfront about past injuries, fears, or setbacks, and coaches use that information directly — monitoring sessions and holding members back from doing too much too soon when needed.
Is LIFT Performance only for people who are already fit?
No. Don came to LIFT after years of failed attempts at other gyms and diets. The coaching approach is designed to build members up safely from wherever they're starting, not to assume a baseline level of fitness.
How is the coaching different from a typical gym trainer?
Every coach at LIFT Performance is also a founder of the gym. That means the same people building relationships with members are the ones responsible for the gym's reputation and results, not staff following a corporate script.
Ready for a Different Experience?
Your first seven days at LIFT Performance Gym are free. If past experiences have kept you away from the gym, book a free assessment and share your story it's exactly what LIFT's coaches want to hear. Visit LIFT Performance Gym in Southington, CT to get started today.











